Raft3r is a people pleaser.
If there is something I can’t do, it is to say no.
I know I am not alone in this predicament.
Why is it so hard to say no?
Why do we always take into consideration what other people might think of us if we turn down an offer or a request?
It gets tiring after awhile. But the need to please others remains.
Human behavior is so complex.
Just once, Raft3r would like to say: “Fuck off!” But I can’t.
That doesn't make me a good person. It only means I'm a pushover.
Judayski
Said
...and i appreciate you so much for being my favorite pushover. i love you.
though wait, tungkol ba ito sa pamimilit kong bagsak presyo yung GC? hahaha!
Raft3r
Said
judayski, Yes. Nawalan ako ng tubo sayo, ha. Hehe
Andy Briones
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I used to have a hard time saying no. Before, I was like a customer service agent; my goal was to please other people.
But lately I've been coercing myself to change. I realized that I should be prioritizing myself, not other people. To hell with what other people want; right now, it's all about me, me, and me.
I'm starting to sound like a brat, ehehehe.
Raft3r
Said
andy briones, Nyahaha. Natawa ako sayo, ah. Hehe
bestfriend
Said
napanaginipan kita bestfriend.nakita daw kita sa isang market na sosyal tapos may dala kang super laking isda tapos tinatawag daw kita tapos ang nasabi mo lang eh "sandali lang, sandali lang" weird lang ng panaginip
Raft3r
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bestfriend, Bakit naman weird? Businessman naman ako, ah. Hehe
Beth
Said
kya ka me stalker, dhil di ka marunong magsay-No e! anyway, siguro Palacios ang last name ng stalker mo no? mdami naman Palacios e, pati nga sa Spain, Guam and Saipan, andami! :) last name ni hubby un. o siya, balitaan mo ko kung tama hinala ko kaya ka kinabahan! :)
ingat! :)
Andy Briones
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Hey, you'd make a good prez! Why? Because you'd actually listen to people and give them what they need (unlike GMA).
Just kidding, ehehe!
Mabuhay si GMA!
Raft3r
Said
beth, No comment. Hehe
andy briones, Yes. Pasok na naman si GMA. Nyahaha. Mabuhay ka, Andy! Hehe
Jella
Said
You can't say no? Hmmm, let me count the ways kaya nung nag-say NO ka sa akin....
yung bday wish ko na kamo eh suntok sa buwan ...
yung Cagbalite trip na di natuloy ...
hehehe. See you soon Denoy, bawi kami ni Omna sa bday treat mo. (,")
Wendy
Said
Mahirap maging pushover, prone sa abuse! On the positive side, dami kang friends - yun nga lang baka dami rin sa kanila user-friendly. Haha, I should know kasi isa rin akong dakilang pushover.
Raft3r
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jella, Iba ka. Close tayo, eh. Kilala mo talaga ako. hehe
wendy, Let's drink to that! Hehe
prinsesamusang
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that's what is different between us. i love saying no. and for a fact, i know that i loooovvvveee to say that i don't care. no make that saying, i understand, i just don't care.
at yan ang alamat ng musang.
Raft3r
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prinsesamusang, Hehe. Teach me how to do that. Please. hehe
len
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I can relate with this entry. I am a "yes person" also especially when I was a student. Pag sinabing pakopya, oo lang ako. hehehe
I'm trying how to say no without being guilty. Kaya naman pala kahit paano. :p
Raft3r
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len, Hehe. Hirap ano? Hay...
liza
Said
I can relate to this, I also have a hard time saying NO. Ewan ko ba, pero ganun ata talaga.
Raft3r
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liza, Hindi naman masama tumanggi. Pero bakit tayo pag ang guilty when we turn someone down? Hehe
pete
Said
si jay din. di marunong huminde. hehe
Raft3r
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pete, Sya talaga mabait at madali mauto. Nyahaha
Chelli
Said
Pautang, please?
Raft3r
Said
chelli, How would you like to receive your cash?
Andy Briones
Said
Pano ba credit rate mo? 5-6 ba yan? Kailangan ko ng cash pambili ng plane ticket to Cannes. :p
Raft3r
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andy briones, Yes. Bumbay na si Raft3r. Hehe
Andy Briones
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Sir, dibidee-dibedee! :p :p :p
Raft3r
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andy briones, Nyahaha. Yan ang next business ko. Hehe
hitokirihoshi_kawaii
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then please watch Yes Man.. hahaha
Raft3r
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hitokirihoshi_kawaii, Publicist ka ni Carrey? Hehe