Monday, November 1, 2010

Song For The Dumped

I have lately been spending a lot of time with someone.

Some call it exclusively dating.

One night she asked me, “Where is this relationship heading?”

I never wanted to give her false hope. She knew from the start what I was made of.

She knew it was coming.

I had to turn away and let her go.

She was a very nice girl.

What is wrong with me?

61 comments:

gillboard said...

commitment phobe!!!

Jerick said...

errrr. i dunno what the heck is wrong with you either kuya.

Raft3r said...

gillboard, Sige. Rub it in. Hehe

jerick, Ako alam ko. Nyahaha

my-so-called-quest, Wala namang subtlety sa ganyang mga bagay-bagay. Hehe

my-so-called-Quest said...

better tell the truth than prolong something that is not working.

but where you subtle? hehe

my-so-called-Quest said...

ngayon ko lang napansin na gustong gusto mo si janet jackson!

apir! madalas ko rin pakingan ang discography nya. hehe

dong ho said...

it's good that you dont give false hope. kawawa nga naman ang mga babae. it's good na kung hindi naman talaga kayo para sa isat isa hirap na magpanggap.

Wendy said...

At least you're honest and you didn't lead her on. What's wrong with u? I think you're yet not ready for anything serious. You just wanna have fun and that's okay!

-Dr. Phil;)

Raft3r said...

my-so-called-quest, The only 2 constant women in my life: mom and Janet. Hehe

dong ho, She deserved someone better. Alam nya yon.

wendy, Nyahaha. Close kayo, ha. Pwede ba ako sa free counseling? Hehe

becomingjudie said...

takte, kaya nagloloko ang OS mo eh, drama prince!!!

anyway, as a woman i feel for the girl, but in reality, fatal minsan ang tanong na, "NOW, WHAT?" parang nan-ta-trap kasi yun eh. IMVHO.

Raft3r said...

becomingjudie, Nakakahawa ka kasi. Nyahaha

tina said...

awwww. and i thought you are about to be "scared" big time!

Raft3r said...

tina, Scared big time na kaya ako. Hehe

Jella said...

Is she the girl you told me about before I left Pinas? Or a new one?

Raft3r said...

jella, She's the one.

Beth said...

Awww...bkit. what is wrong with you? Kakapost mo lang about karma e. Kaw talaga.

But honestly, I did that too when I was still single. Mas mabuti na kasi un kesa naman magpaasa ka, right? I believe that girl would have to thank you someday esp. when she meets na the right one for her. :) Look at it that way na lang. :)

Take care always, Rafter! Will check your other posts! :)

Raft3r said...

beth, Thanks. Karma police, I'm waiting. Hehe

The Philippine Guild said...

continue running lang, dude. sooner or later naman you'll trip eh. and, boy, will you be thankful that you did. suddenly and finally.

Raft3r said...

the philippine guild, That would happen 10 years from now. Hehe

saM said...

Are you sure???

Raft3r said...

sam, Sure asan? Hehe

Hoshilandia Sr. said...

wala na akong sasabihin...

maliban sa nai-imagine ko na... baka ikaw si robin at siya si mariel.

peace!

Raft3r said...

hoshilandia sr, Nyahaha. Paano nangyari yon? Kapuso ako, eh. Hehe

Eternal Wanderer... said...

channeling mariah here:

"heartbreaker, you got the best of me..."

lolz

Raft3r said...

eternal wanderer, Hwag sa buntis. Hehe

atticus said...

hala. sa totoo lang, nakakasakit ka na. kung hindi mo seseryosohin, huwag mong simulan. hindi tamang gawain iyan. kahit pa you claim they know what they're getting into, many women have this habit of hoping they'd be the one.

believe me, you ARE hurting them.

g4strainer_exx007 said...

nice post...

Raft3r said...

atticus, I'm trying to make amends na nga. Ako naman talaga ang mali, eh.

g4strainer_exx007, Thanks...

brando said...

kawawa naman yun tsiks

Raft3r said...

brando, Kawawa din kaya ako. Hindi ako makapag-commit. Hehe

prinsesamusang said...

nothing is wrong with you, what made you say that? haha

Raft3r said...

prinsesamusang, Nyahaha. Comments like yours make me think na talagang may mali sakin. Hehe

Barang said...

ay sus!! ikaw talaga!!

Raft3r said...

barang, Sorry to disappoint. Tao lang. Marupok. Hehe

stevevhan said...

hmmm, i think mas cool kung wala munang commitment!ahahaha, para kasing walang trill pag commitment na kagad, pwede bang enjoy each other muna?pero exclusive lang to eah other bawal singit!okay?ahahahha,

Raft3r said...

stevevhan, Sakto! Nyahaha

Chieboy said...

Di sayo bagay...
Dapat bida...
The "good guy..."
Naks...

Raft3r said...

chieboy, Ayoko. Nice guys finish last. Nyahaha

RaYe said...

aha!

kaya ka pala nakarelate sa post ko...
nyahhaahha...

tama, fling lang, walang relasyon.

sakit lang sa ulo ang commitment e. hehehe

Raft3r said...

raye, Tama. Tama. I will die alone. Hehe

ahmer said...

Sometimes letting go is the best thing to do.

Raft3r said...

ahmer, Bakit sometimes lang? Hehe

Anonymous said...

baka naman ako ang type mo! LoL!
-charlie

Raft3r said...

charlie, Naku. Baka mapatay pa ako ng boyfriend mo. Hehe

ahmer said...

Based on my experience yun Haha

Raft3r said...

ahmer, Kaya naman pala. Nyahaha

MinnieRunner said...

Oo nga, WHAT'S WROOOONGG WITH YOU!!!!

Raft3r said...

minnierunner, Naku. Ang daming mali sa pagkatao ko. Sobrang dami. Hehe

VICTOR said...

Taking someone's affections for granted is the easiest thing to do.

Raft3r said...

victor, True. Kaya subject to abuse, eh.

jean said...

may mga girls na ata magcommit ang guy, pero meron din pala na yung girl naman ang ayaw magcommit. pero sabi nga nila, weather-weather lang yan.

Raft3r said...

jean, Oo. Madami nadin babae ang career oriented at di na masyado fixated sa kasal. Maigi yon. Hehe

mitzi Hilado said...

ang importante lang you're always true to yourself and to her (who ever she is/will be) ... mahahanap mo rin siguro yung katapat mo... may dahilan ang lahat, baka pati pagiging commitment-phobic mo... only time will tell... just try not to crush too many hearts along the way.. but then again, that's part of it naman di ba? ... basta, may kasagutan at may layunin din ang lahat... :o

Raft3r said...

mitzi hilado, Kumpleto talaga pangalan? Astig. Hehe. One day, she will come. =)

eden said...

tama lang you don't give false hope..but kawawa naman yon tsik, what if she comes back because she loves you.. hehehehe

Raft3r said...

eden, Malabo. Galit na sya sakin. Hehe

RaYe said...

so that explains yung comment mo sa blog ko.. hehehe

yep, letting go is best if you really can't commit. :)

Raft3r said...

raYe, Tama. Hehe

Andy B. said...

No comment. Hehe

Raft3r said...

andy b, Bakit no comment? Hehe

yeda said...

ngayon ko lng nabasa to..
curios ako dencio..sno? =)

Denoy Eusebio said...

yeda, Nakwento ko na ito sayo. Hehe