Thursday, February 17, 2011

An Ideal Husband

Attending weddings only does two things to a person.

(One) You see a clearer vision on how your own big day would be like.

(Two) The realization that a beautiful and expensive wedding does not make a happy marriage last forever.

49 comments:

bulakbolero.sg said...

may tama ka dito pareng rafter.

ang pinakaimportante lang naman sa kasalan, ay kasama mo yung mahal mo. lahat ng kadikit ng kasal, preparasyon, handa, lugar.etc... bonus nalang un ika nga.

Raft3r said...

bulakbolero.sg, Apir!

emmanuelmateo said...

yeah.. even a simple wedding lang ang im4tant eh magsasama kayo dba po. Money does not measure how u value ur partner d most im4tant is ur love nd trust.

Raft3r said...

emmanuelmateo, Why marry in the first place? Hehe

uno said...

i agree with latter...

happy marriage is beyond those fancy things... all about love, respect and trust...

Raft3r said...

uno, I prefer the fancy things over the three other things you mentioned. Nyahaha

wendy said...

So true. Super sayang ang wedding expenses (esp if it's a big wedding) kung maghihiwalay lang rin. Pero kanya-kanyang trip sa buhay e. Kung ikaw blu-ray (hehe), ang iba naman e engrandeng kasal ang gusto. Weird, I know.

Raft3r said...

wendy, Ako ba yun weird o sila? Hehe

Anonymous said...

kaya nga suggestion ko sa dyowa ko sa Huwes na lang.. and the thing sa Huwes wala syang "'til death do us part".. nyahaha!
kaya lang.. ayaw sa Huwes eh..
-charlie mama

Raft3r said...

charlie mama, Forever naman kayo. Kaya nothing to be worried about. Patay na patay sayo yon! Hehe

Eternal Wanderer... said...

itanan mo na lang ako!!!

Raft3r said...

eternal wanderer, Nyahaha. Sigurado ka? Hehe

gillboard said...

ang nega naman. magbabago din ang isip mo. promise.

saM said...

hindi ka nanaman inlab?! ang gulo mo naman hehehe

becomingjudie said...

high five sa pangalawa! tamang maglustay ng pera for a one day event? no to weddings. or fine, simple wedding na lang. mafifeel mo rin yan.

Raft3r said...

gillboard, San naman ang nega dyan? Hehe

sam, In love nga ako. Kaya ganyan. Hehe

becomingjudie, Gusto ko Blu-ray wedding. Nyahaha

Jerick said...

well, a normal people would think that they'd only get married once so why not celebrate it in the grandest way they could think of? grand is not always the synonym to expensive.

can we focus on the gravity of the marriage instead of the money spent on it?

Raft3r said...

jerick, It's all about the money. Everyone knows that by now.

anggie said...

i like this post

Raft3r said...

anggie, Thanks. I like it, too. Hehe

Wendy said...

Syempre sila. If I have a blu-ray, I'd be married to it too. Haha.

Raft3r said...

wendy, Nyahaha. Good point.

Baby Francine said...

So what is your dream wedding then?

Raft3r said...

baby francine, Boracay wedding. Ayos ba?

pete said...

ano naman wedding song mo ha

Raft3r said...

pete, Have A Little Faith In Me. Oha. Kala mo wala, ha. Nyahaha

Anonymous said...

Mag-asawa ka na

Raft3r said...

anonymous, Pakilala ka muna. Ok? Hehe

Visual Velocity said...

Weddings are overrated. Mas practical na ngayon mag huwes na lang or live in, heheh

Raft3r said...

visual velocity, Nyahaha. Pwede, pwede.

hitokirihoshi said...

isa kang KJ. hahaha!
queber mo ba, eh yun ang gusto nila.
nyahahaha!

kung buong buhay nila yun ang pinangarap nila eddie itodo na nga. sorry ha, pero may pinuntahan kaming kasal ni chief len na nagpa-realize sa amin na sana hindi ganito ang wedding namin. hindi naman sa pang-aano dun sa ikinasal.

Raft3r said...

hitokisihoshi, Palaban ka ngayon ha. Hehe

atticus said...

sa experience ng mga tatanga-tangang kaibigan ko, isa lang ang natutunan ko: there's no reason to get married other than love.

umayos ka. pag ikaw ang nagkamali sa aspetong ito, hindi lang batok ang matitikman mo sa akin.

hmph.

Raft3r said...

atticus, Opo. Nyahaha

Anonymous said...

Roughter, Simpleng kasal lang, happy na ko. Ayoko magaya sa mga bonggang wedding na nag end lang sa Splitsville. Henjoy HK!
-Anonimus

Raft3r said...

anonymous, Splitsville? Naku. Madami ngang nagagawi dyan. Hehe

prinsesamusang said...

i don't know why couples go for expensive weddings. eh kung tinabi na lang nila yun pangbayad ng bills nila sa future, tsk, tsk.

Raft3r said...

prinsesamusang, I want a grand wedding too! Nyahaha

Liz said...

Ang mahal magpakasal pero mahal din magpa-annul. Kaya tama wag na lang magpakasal hahaha.

Raft3r said...

liz, Best comment by far! Hehe

anna said...

dude, may sakit ka ba? nakaka-worry naman itong post mo...

Raft3r said...

anna, Matagal na akong may sakit. Nyahaha

jose said...

Papa, pag-isipan mo munang mabuti. Pababalikin ko si Janet Jackson para siya ang kumanta sa kasal mo.

Raft3r said...

jose, Yehey! Best wedding gift ever! Hehe

eden said...

Agree with you.Sayang lang yong pera.Yong wedding namin sa Huwes lang and we didn't even pay a single cent. hehehe

Anonymous said...

besfren...nananginip ka lang...GISING

Raft3r said...

anonymous, Gising na gising na ako. Wala pa nga tulog, eh. Hehe

len said...

Someone once told me that the issue is not about having a simple or extravagant wedding.The most important thing is to get married for the right reasons. :)

And this reminds me that I'll be a bridesmaid to a cousin's wedding before March ends.

Raft3r said...

len, Good luck ke sanpits!