Sunday, February 22, 2009

Hate That I Love You

The Rihanna-Chris Brown lover’s quarrel has been hogging the headlines for quite sometime now.

It was only a couple of months back when these two love birds sang their hearts out in Manila.

Just recently, a picture of a heavily bruised Rihanna surfaced all over the net. It was pretty disturbing.

Raft3r is not a big fan of physical abuse towards women.

I do not understand how some chicks can take a beating from the men they love. When a guy turns Manny Pacquiao on you, take that as a clear indication that something is definitely wrong with your relationship.

Take the hint and dump the bastard.

As for those so-called macho women bashers, I have only this to say: Picking a fight with a girl is very unmanly.

That doesn't sound too macho now, right?

27 comments:

prinsesamusang said...

is that picture authentic? hmmm... the fight against women violence has a long way to go. and men who do it are even worse than animals. ugh.

Raft3r said...

prinsesamusang, You got that right. TMZ is not credible, though. Hehe

Jella said...

Denoy, correct ka dyan! I love your blog today. I don't see anything offensive with what you've written. You just wrote what's real. I guess, reality bites.

I am one with you in advising that physically abused women should dump their bastard partners. Unfortunately, in real life, just like the cases I do handle, women would most often forgive their abusive partners out of blind love and in the pathethic hope that they will eventually change. There is NO EXCUSE for any physical violence. PERIOD. They should find someone deserving and much better.

Hello, tama bang gawing punching bag ang babae. Tsk, tsk, tsk!

Raft3r said...

jella, Salamat. Salamat.

Ganns said...

According to my wifey, Batgirls (battered girls) often have low self-esteem, father issues, or other related emotional hang-ups. While I can't believe Rihanna would have low self-esteem, I'm sure there are underlying issues that kept her with Chris Brown despite the physical abuse.

For Batgirls, leaving is always easier said than done.

Raft3r said...

ganns, Mas madaling magpayo kesa gawin. Hehe

hitokirihoshi_kawaii said...

nice PUNCHY lines raft3r! DURUGIN ang mga lalaking 'yan! Gawing Chris Violet!

Raft3r said...

hitokirihoshi_kawaii, Nyahaha. Makibaka! Hwag matakot!

the donG said...

dami na yatang nangyayaring ganyan. maybe because of unwanted marriage.

Raft3r said...

the dong, Kawawa naman kasi yun mga kababaihan natin.

Wendy said...

Men who beat women up are obviously sick in the head. I could just imagine how traumatic it must be to be with someone who's physically violent. Baka pati ako maging violent.

Raft3r said...

Wendy, An eye for an eye. Tama ba?

len said...

It's disturbing!
This goes to prove that any women - rich, poor, famous, ordinary influential, powerless -- can become a victim of domestic violence/physical abuse.

laieesha said...

I agree! Like I tell people, no man has ever hit me and they never will. If one tries, they can only get one hit in because when I retaliate, it'll be OVER! Then I leave his ass for good!

Anyway, that's on Rihanna though. She chose to be with that abusive bastard. Did you know that he beat his own MOTHER?! Those who can hit their own momma has no respect for any girl!

But... meron pa ring mga martir that will stay because the guy says he's sorry and it will never happen again... until the next fight and he hits her again. Cycle of abuse. I have a friend trapped in that kind of relationship pero no matter what we say, choice nya pa rin yon and it will be up to her to walk away...

Raft3r said...

len, Walng pinipili talaga. That's the sad part.

laieesha, Nakakalungkot talaga. Hay.

brainteaser said...

Agree with you on this one, Rafter!

Disturbing ang mga ganitong pangyayari. :-(

Raft3r said...

brainteaser, Hey. It's been awhile, ah. How are you?

liza said...

i've seen this photo all over the net. totoo, indication yun na dapat i-dump na pero kung ako, gaganti muna ko hahaha.

Raft3r said...

liza, Hehe. Lintik lang ang walang ganti ba? Hehe

pete said...

sweet ba sila noong nag-concert sila dito?

Raft3r said...

pete, Panalo talaga mga comments mo. Hehe. Di ko napansin, eh. Ang alam ko lang na-bored ako sa concert. Hehe

pete said...

valid question ang na raised ko ha

Raft3r said...

pete, Di ko naman sinabi na hindi valid ang tanong mo eh. Hehe

len said...

Raft3r, how about this:People reported that Rihanna and Chris Brown are back together. Awww!

Raft3r said...

len, Some people never learn.

len said...

Or some would prefer to learn the hard way.

Raft3r said...

len, Oo. Bahala sya sa buhay na. Matanda na sya. Hehe