Saturday, August 2, 2008

Jealousy

Are you the jealous type?

Raft3r is not. But I have been getting a lot of flak for being close to women who have intimate relationships with other guys.

It's not that I am hitting on them or anything. That's not Raft3r's thing. Besides, I am happy with my own relationship.

What Raft3r doesn't understand about his fellow gentlemen is this: We, men, often say how secured we are about ourselves, our masculinity, and all. But isn't jealousy a part of insecurity?

Gentlemen, there is nothing wrong with your girls having male friends.

Loosen up the grip.

27 comments:

yummy friend said...

insecure with you, hmm? if di kita ka-close, who else would tell me pointblank that we women are so full of subliminal messages without me feeling the least bit offended? hehe.

sino naman yan yummy friend, come on, tell me. let's put some sense into him. hahaha!!!

fab said...

i totally agree. kudos to you for not being the jealous type!

Raft3r said...

yummy friend, Naku. Ang dami na nila. Pucha feeling gwapo na nga ako, e. Nyahaha. At of last count, apat na sila. Hehe.

fab, Let's cheers to that!

the donG said...

one good point there raft3r!

Raft3r said...

the dong, Kelangan na nila ng wake up call. Hehe

something purple said...

Titan was like that before, He was my friends best male friend. I dont find anything wrong with it but others would.

Simpleng advice lang, keep the distance (at least when the bf is there) hahah!

Raft3r said...

something purple, Noted. Nyahaha

Sonnet's said...

I'm lucky Jon's not the jealous type otherwise there'll be two of us and that's not really healthy for us:)

Raft3r said...

sonnet's, Hay. bakit ba naman kasi nauso pa ang selos, diba? Hehe

five said...

uuy, kilala ko ung isa dun, hahaha!!!!

Raft3r said...

five, Hmmm... Talaga? Sino! Hehe

Vannie said...

true true! some guys are so weird and insecure that they are jealous of nothing!

well, us girls can be like this sometimes too. hehehe good thing i am not like that.

Jella said...

Oi Denoy, sino nga ba ka-relasyon mo ngayon? Parang ala ka namang nababanggit sa akin ah, unlike when you were still with L--g. You ought to introduce her to me when you get back here :-)

Buti na lang at di ka naman pinagseselosan ng bf ko, hehehe. (,")

Sonnet's said...

Siguro nasa genes na, hehe:)

Raft3r said...

vannie, Hehe. Very few ang kagaya mo. Good 4 you.

jella, Sa kasal na lang!!! Nyahaha

sonnet's, It should be altered then. =P

havelei said...

Crazy love leads to obsession. That's why one turns out to be very possessive. Being jealous doesn't always mean.. "HMP! HE'S BETTER THAN ME" or "HE'S SMARTER" (not the common impression "insecure kasi"

but let's just say..it has something to do with one's EMOTIONAL STABILITY.

Siguro cold na yung girl s kanila..
Perhaps hindi sila confident sa binibigay n love/attention ng girl.

TRUST? yah.. wala e.

Raft3r said...

havelei, Point well taken. Very nice.

Demiera said...

I agree completely with your post.

Although I also agree vannie that girls can be that way too.

I can get jealous sometimes *blush* but I don't feel bad about it because its a knee-jerk emotion...I'll feel it but catch myself and realize I'm being silly.

I think guys (and some girls) should learn to do that sometimes too.

Raft3r said...

demiera, It does take two to tango. Hehe

bestfriend said...

Napansin ko nga yan bestfriend, dami mo ka close na girls. And they can be very malambing to you without malice (well, at least to them) kaya siguro pinagseselosan ka ng mga bfs nila...kasi naman natural talent mo yung mag pa charming ng walang effort

Raft3r said...

bestfriend, Puro ka talaga bola. Sige pa! More! More! More! hehe

Sonnet's said...

buti nga nabawasan na eh, mas matindi noon hehe:)

Raft3r said...

sonnet's, Hehe. Matindi pala talaga ang genes na yan!

Wendy said...

I think marami ring insecure ang jealous type na guys. Ayaw lang ipahalata, unlike most girls na very open sa insecurities nila.

Raft3r said...

wendy, Nyahaha. Alam mo naman kami...

Sonnet's said...

Matindi talaga den hehe:) I think kuya and i got it from papa kasi grabe magselos yon kay mama noon. Si mama naman walang kaselos-selos sa katawan and she's so confident kahit mataba sya hehe:)

Raft3r said...

sonnet's, Tita's one cool tsik!